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Get to the point. GTTP
This is a crucial concept in conflict resolution and communication. Take a moment to understand its significance and learn how to effectively use it to keep people engaged in meaningful dialogue.

Conflicts & Baseball
Another sport that consumes my family is baseball. My youngest just started playing “real” games. Baseball can be a little slow moving and although I find myself getting into the games, I sometimes can drift into endless thoughts about conflict and communication. I was able to see quite a few similarities between baseball and conflicts, reminding me even more why athletics are so important to our youth for social growth and navigation. Read on to know how the structure of conflicts and the sport of baseball can help us understand each other and help us get to resolutions.

Transformative Power: Mediation & Conflict Coaching
Understanding the benefits and transformative potential of mediation and conflict coaching is crucial to knowing if your problem is eligible. This post delves into the reasons these processes are applicable to a wide range of conflicts.

When you’re stuck
Sometimes we find ourselves feeling stuck in a conflict. We tend to replay the events over and over again in our minds, hoping to make sense of what happened. However, this constant repetition can lead us to overanalyze the situation or even create a false narrative. It all depends on the stories we tell ourselves and others about the event.

Uncomfortable Assumptions
Have you ever made an assumption about someone or a situation? We all have. Making assumptions is a natural part of how our brains function - we use our past experiences and knowledge to make quick judgments about the world around us. However, assumptions can also be detrimental to our relationships and communication with others. Read on to know how assumptions impact our ability to listen and communicate in our relationships.

Conflict Resolution: The Components
When faced with a conflict, it's common to feel overwhelmed and unsure of how to proceed. By breaking down different components of the conflict, we can gain a better understanding of the situation and feel more capable of resolving it. This approach helps us enter the situation with confidence and a sense of empowerment.

Mastering the Art of a Tough Talk
Difficult conversations often lead us to shy away from solving our problems. This entry is a guideline designed to help individuals prepare for effective tough talks. It provides a short checklist of crucial components and insights into the discussion.

Accountability Statements
It is easy to blame others for our problems, but this approach can leave us feeling powerless and stuck. The key to resolving conflicts is to identify our accountability in the situation and develop a plan to address the problem. In this post we’ll explore how to shift our mindset from blame to accountability and provide tips on identifying and solving problems through the creation of our accountability statement.

Co-Parenting Insights #2 The Holidays
The holiday season is a stressful time for co-parenting, However, there are constructive steps that can be taken to help reduce fighting and promote a peaceful environment. By working together and communicating effectively, parents can create a positive holiday experience for their children.